I've found that most people have some sense of mission, like they're here for a reason. But once they pass their mid-thirties, they start to wonder, "Is this it?" because "it" feels meaningless, boring, lame. They catch themselves feeling like they're not far enough along, and not good enough. There's a creeping fear that they're missing the chance to make it.
The demands of their job, friends and family never slow down. If anything, they seem to cause more stress. Just thinking about it makes their inner critic answer with more guilt and frustration. It feels like they work more hours for the same money. They're challenged to find meaning, and balance is a myth. Even their faith in God is wavering.
they're doing all they can
and it still isn't enough.
They think, "If only I could find the right technology, or maybe a system or a program..." the magic solution will appear. But it doesn't.
The reality is that while they're hunting outside, they're growing hungrier inside, and inside is where the answers live. If they can quiet their inner critic, they'll know what they really want. They can then align their habits with their deep desires, and they'll see the solutions that have been there all along.
What they really want is to live life! They don't think it's too much to ask to enjoy work and have time for family and friends. They look forward to healthy relationships, and prosperous, meaningful work.
They have to Develop a new mindset
that believes truthfully, accepts responsibility for reality, and clarifies their desires so that the things they already know start working.
They need a new way of thinking through problems so that solutions appear like kisses from heaven.
That was my story, too, frustration and misery until I sat down one day and said, "To hell with this crap." I finally got tired of paying thousands for strategies that taught nothing more than "success comes from working harder" or (my least favorite) "working smarter." I even hired highly touted coaches who fed me sunshine and rainbow laced BS; clichés that sound good but can't pass a basic logic test.
The changes began after I read deeply in two areas: motivation and neuroscience. I soon realized that my problem was not my work ethic. My problem was that my brain was working against me.
Four years and hundreds of tests later, I arrived at a proprietary methodology that has worked on everyone who tried it.
How's it work?
Jump on a call with me. We'll discover what's holding you back and clear the obstacle. We'll shut up your inner critic. (One client said, "We turned elephants into gnats.") You'll clarify desires and without the old limits, you'll start getting what you want out of life. Together, we'll train your brain to work for you instead of against your dreams and goals.
what's the order?
- Life and business assessments to clarify where to start.
- Easy mindset hacks to have a better day every day.
- Shutting up the inner critic who whispers, "You can't."
- Discovering what, specifically, has been holding you back.
- Clearing the obstacles in your life, freeing you to get where you want to go.
- Clarity to know what you want.
- A system for staying on track.
- An end to procrastination, toxic relationships, dead end jobs, and feeling inferior.
- Proven tactics for more time, more money, self-discovery, personal accountability, less waste, and way more fun.
- The types of relationships to nurture, those to avoid, and the courage to maintain boundaries.
What's the Result?
Barriers fall away.
Gain clarity on desires.
Make better decisions.
Observe faster progress.
How long does it take?
Almost everyone notices positive changes within two weeks. In a couple months, everyone reports feeling more settled, and most people say they've seen progress in areas that stumped them for years. Entrepreneurs see sustainable revenue patterns and far less worrying within the first year.
My proprietary Mindset for Success process uses the latest neuroscience, and the timeless principles of human motivation to build an unshakable mindset and habits that are proven to build success. You will see improvement quickly, it will last, and you'll start getting what you want out of life instead of the leftovers.
Hungry people hire me to help them find success in all areas of life.
HEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS, WEALTH, CAREER, SPIRITUALITY
Just a few of the problems, clients have solved using Mindset for Success. (Any of these ring a bell?)
Too many hours not having fun, wishing I was doing something else.
Not enough money to pay debts, get ahead, and enjoy life.
Exhausting, expanding workload (and waistline from not enough time to exercise).
Too little time with kids, family, and significant other.
Incompetent, demanding, disrespectful boss.
Office politics and drama.
Weekend interruptions, calls, emails.
Boring social life.
Constant, nit-picky rules and oversight from managers.
Goals from management that make no sense or are impossible to achieve.
Bickering at home followed by bickering at work--a spiral of gloom.
Cut throat environment where doing the right thing goes unrewarded.
Making money, but no time to enjoy it.